Would You?

Before I elaborate more on one tought which i had tought about for weeks, I think its fair to bring out one important aspect of our life, our love life. Yes indeed after experiecing love from a girl beside my mum is indeed beautiful. Especially the current partner I m with now. She is really great and cool, all in all, I can say she is the ONE, Whow! No extra bombasti-cation here. Its true. I really have a strong feeling that she is the ONE. And indeed I had done many many many things for her ( so does she ), most of them things which if you asked me 5 months ago, "Would you do it for Your girlfriend?" I would straight away say "no..I don't think so" All because of love. Seriously as a guy I m not really into romantic-fancy-fancy stuffs. I m really a laid-back guy deep down, with a simple life and simple needs. But after knowing her, I always try to find ways and do things to keep the fire love burning. I can't deny sometimes I really don't wish to do certain things at that particular time, but I just do it anyway because I know she will like and appriciate it. Keeping the "fire" burning is not easy. But by doing so, I found out I rather quite enjoyed it in the end, obviously i meant the process of keeping the "fire" burning. Also I knew I had did good enough for my part and I wont regret in the future if anything should happen then. No matter what the future holds and happen, I think I wont regret or feel sad, agitated. Because deep down you knew you had give your best and any unhappy ending won't be blamed on your side. (Well, obviously i only using a big "IF" here, I sure don't want any unhappy things to happen obiously!) because everthing has a probability to occur aren't they? weather small or big. And people said "Its better to had loved and lost, rather than not to love at all" is one English saying which i agreed. Sometimes its not the lenght of time that counts but the feelings and bonding relation that occur. Give another saying "Life is not about how many breath we take, but how many time it took our breath away"

Alright! enough of MonkeyCrap, lets get to the main point today. Basically today's discussion here revolves around one main question " HOW MUCH WOULD YOU DO FOR LOVE?" Would you fight for love eventhough love had become not as beautiful as it used to be anymore? Would you forgive and try to forget eventhough you had been betrayed by love? Would You still Love him/her eventhough him/her had changed and don't used to be the old him/her? These questions I would say would draw many many diffrent answers with good supporting points to prove. Generally, diffrent people would have diffren view of how and why things should work, No one can every say he is right and others is wrong and vice versa.

Personally for me, my opinion, I would say "It Depends" Sometimes certain things don't have an answer at the moment. And sometimes also the answer we ought to propose and give now might be diffrent from what we will say the future. Because people just keep changing. No one is same now with what they are 10 or 20 yuears ago. But I m a strong beliver of another saying: " Before you asked what love can do for you, ask what you can do for love" Loving and caring for someone requires consistency, patience, sincerity, faithfulness, trust and understanding. Sometimes relationships are not as pretty as we expect it to be, sometimes a third party just come in and ruin it up. Sometimes you don't know why you just get so messed up and ruined everthing up yourself and came to regret at the end. I had regretted many times in my life and I don't wish to regret about anything anymore in the future. Thats why I always give my best in whatever things I m commited and hold responsibilities into. Because I believe if you really had found love and happiness (as in my case),Its all worth while to strive your best and sacrifice for your love, then you will get back your reward which is the happiness of love itself from someone you loved.

So, Would You?