Dedicated To her....

I had created this blog for a long long time but now only i can find a suitable post as a first official post. As what the title had already pre-describe......ah.... where shall i start, I think it should be on the 1st time i knew her itself. hahaha..

JAPANESE PASSION WEEK & JAPANESE CULTURAL NIGHT is the turning point in my life here in MMU. Life used to be sort of dull and boring.... its either outing with boring people, computer, study, eat, sleep, go to class, and similar crap happening day in and day out. My brother take5 once told me his life in NUS while staying in the residents used to be like this crap. Until he made up his mind that this is not really this life he wanted. NUS RAG he said has turned his life, and moving into Sheares Hall complete the cycle. I had always admired him and have full respect to him. Then i too decided that i should join some Big events in MMU and was hoping something similar might happen. At first, The JPW meetings and shit looks promising. Plenty of cute babes and hot mamas. I was hoping that I might be able to find one group of friends here which i can enjoy being with like what i had in my hometown. Things started of really slow and steady, just a ordinary working committee... go for boring meetings, photo shots de-bla de-bla and crap. Then comes the 3rd semester, the work starts to get intense.. as the event is coming soon. for the first time my division head which was the Special Task division requested us to come to help to hand the promotional banners and buntings for the event. yeahh.... things was kinda fine... the few days later i was asked to come to help again.... and on this night is where i meet my Baybee. Frankly speaking the first impression was not really good. She was in something like a sleeping pajamas and her hair was like all messed up. We hanged the posters around MMU... i tied the string and she clipped it. Then we start a conversation.... some boring topics.... like wad u studying, where u satyed, de-bla de-bla and shit. then i dont know wad really happned that time..... we both got isolated at CLC while one group of us are hanging up these posters. We waited for them to returned and finally i asked her to call the missing pack to ask them where the heck had they gone to. Rupa-rupanya they had went to Law school. so we walked there together. i remembered i told her that time i was very tired because i had paid full attention at class today. hahahah.... she didn’t talk much. Upon reaching Law School BigLadyBossS start teasing me and her...oh crap! i was like...What the heck! and i could see that she is blushing already. hahaha after everything is done, we all lepak on one table in CLC under the dim yellow light and I played some of my songs with my HP. She asked me weather i liked any girls and i told her i m "in the process" .....just to spice things up but the actual fact i m still single and not very liking it. I remembered she played 男人Ktv song….. It all started here…

Few days later..another JPW general meeting… I saw her, but I didn’t called her. The next “build-up” event…. Its when I asked my ex-roommate ( he knows her quite well already) things about her…..just interested to know as friends. This mongrel @sshole straight away jump to the rumor that I liked her…(Oh goddamnn) and chucked her msn email to me when I didn’t asked for it. I copied it in a notepad and don’t actually plan to add her. But I added her anyhow…..start the chat. Our first internet dialogue is…..

Grace: Who are you?
Me : West lar… forgot me already? Hahahaha

And there start the online conversation just as friends…I would asked her many things, and she also would asked me many things. And to spark happen I would say during Valentine’s day itself…. I was swimming with my sidekick Wayne on Valentine’s Day, sort of disappointed because I had to date a guy on Valentine’s day. Hahahaha… after swimming, we went to MMU corner for dinner. Of all the co-incidence I saw her at MMU corner eating dinner with her roommate ( I still remembered what she ate and her expression when she saw me) We was not that close yet that time… but I went over to say Hi anyway. Wayne was keep bugging me to ask them out for a date. I was like “oh man!!!!!!!” they left earlier and wave bye to us from a distance while we continued to eat our dinner. We left after we are done, and walked back to EP to get my bike. On this time I saw her walking towards the main road. She saw me and I saw her. The first thing that happened , I said “这么有缘阿” she was just smiling and her friend also said waalao! So 有缘! They are going to Jonker…. Her friend invited me to come along but I declined. I went back home then. I changed my MSN’s PM to “Ni xiang xin yuen fen ma?” (Do You Believe in YuenFen?) That night.. I went to my housemate’s room to watch Red Cliff2. After finishing watching the movie, I came back to my room and found out there are few missed called by a unknown number in my cell. I thought it was by some dancing class members calling to ask for info, so I quickly sms back to explain the situation and ask who is this. “She” replied me “ I am the girl you saw 2 times today lor…” and I was like…. U know. Hahahahahahaha…. She told me she wanted to ask me about the road in jonker walk, I think they got lost or what. When she came back, we msn-ed a while and she asked me who is my pm question meant for. I told her for a friend lor. The night ended quite sweetly. And the next morning, I saw her pm entitled “ For some things, I believe” I got my answer. ^^

2days later, she suddenly asked me out for singing K with her roommate. I straight away said ok without thinking and off we went. The first date….went quite nicely, and of course her friend kept teasing me and her. Well, the spark is already there. Fuel is added to transform it into a combustion. LOL hahahahaha…Actually many events took place but due to space and time constrains I only will state down the important events that took place in this chronicles. LMAO!!!@! We continued chating through msn, and one fine day I asked her weather she like me or not. She said she don’t know. I was fine actually cause I m not sure about this at first anyway. So what I told her is that we become best friends 1st to understand more about each other. Well, thing went pretty much fine then. Until one day I called wayne out for supper. At first I called her too but she rejected. So off me and my sidekick went to eat. We chatted bout stuffs, crap and shit. Until suddenly tat @sshole Wayne started to talk about this girl. He start asking me what I think about grace, shit and that, and seeing him as my mate, I just split out all my feelings and standings to him. I said I like her… and some crappy stuffs. Suddenly I got a miss called from her. Then she suddenly hit my back and smile at me. OH CRAP!@ she was behind me all the while. My goodness she had been listening to all the things I had said about. No wonder wayne the **** suddenly asked me this question. Oh man. I was hoping I didn’t said anything wrong. Wayne left soon afterwards and left me and her alone. She told me many things about herself. Her family…. And finally I walked her home. Oh god….Was so…… that night.

Things after that was beginning to progress. I can see. I started calling her out for eating ( well that’s actually only once), bought stuffs for her, so does she. Then one day I called her out for a dinner at mmu corner. On the way back I asked for her permission to hold her hand and she let. I feel sooo nice holding her soft lady hand. We settled in the park that time listen to songs with her handset. Something happen but I only see the beautiful part on what happened that night, which is we had made physical contact for the first time. Things were developing exponentially after that. We still haven’t made it official yet due to some problems but from that night onwards I already had assumed her as my girl. We did the Japanese Night event together and she was soo beautiful that night with the makeup and yukata. I was at the back stage while she was the dancer and the actor for some performance in that event. Things was so sweet. We meet up after the event in front of EP for a date and that was the most happy night for me since I came to MMU. On 9th March 2009 after solving some small problem with my mate and eating dinner with her we went for a stroll. She made me hug her after she tell me she will accept me officially. That night was sooo wonderful.

My dearest girlfriend, Grace Bon Hui Qin. I want to tell you that I am soo happy that I meet you. You are a girl that had made me changed my mindset about the way I see girls and made me a better person. You had made me believe that there is a good woman in this world beside my mum. Thank you for your understanding, jokes, you smile, your hugs ,the beautiful cap and many more. ( not forgetting the Japanese pizza you made for me.) My life had changed since the day I meet you at the banner hanging. As the matter of fact I think of you most of the time now.I had renewed my study spirit as I managed to divert the feeling of missing and cherishing you into a motivation and determination to study that had been long lost since I came to beta year. I wish I can be with you for a long long time. Thank you for complementing about my eyes. And saying all sorts of cute things to me. Sometimes I don't think I deserve a girl this cool. But I promise you I will try my best to be a good friend and boyfriend. I am not perfect but for you I will try to be as good as you want. ( and by the way, I still remember I owe you one McD meal) hahahahah