Double Posts

To Do or not to do? I say Let’s wait for the right time!

Many of my friends had done it and I personally think there is nothing wrong doing it. But I always think that we should wait for the right time and right place to do it. Even though so, I can’t deny as a hot blooded man, there are sometimes urges for me to do and fantasizing, but I always shrug this feelings off. I know my dear is not ready yet, so I won’t force her. A friend told me to keep urging and persisting. They also told me all sorts of sweet talk methods to make her finally give it to us. I know that if I had been persistent, I think there would be a chance she will give it up. But I know she will not give it willing and happily if things should happen that way. This point alone made me believe I should wait. I don’t want to hurt her even a bit by forcing her indirectly to do what she don’t want to. So let’s just enjoy things as it were now and let something which is to be done and to be think be left done in the future. I guess even without sex, we can still enjoy this relationship and I also believe sex will be much more memorable and enjoyable when the time is right. There is no use if only one party is enjoying it. I’m saying this because I really love her. When a man loves her woman sincerely, he would think in her side and do many things that will make her happy. Its great that I had a chance to experience this.
She is very open-minded and understanding, That’s one of the many reason which made me like and loved her so much. Thank you dar dar. I know that you are trying to learnt many things about guys just because of me. Even though I had said it many times, I think I want to say it again. Dear!!! You are very SEXY LAH!!!!!! Always make me keep starring at you (Paiseh betol!!!!). I know what will be your reaction after reading this. Let me guess…. A big “Maeh wah!!!!”

What should we do in one day

University life is really different from what I used to have at home. At home everything is taken care of. I can say that the only thing we need to do is to study. Outside in the world for two years and counting now, I still see that some people don’t get over it accepting the fact that we all have to grow up one day, be independent and don’t rely too much on our parents anymore. Many MMU students still always rush back home on sight on holidays, and their parents fetch them back from hometown to Melaka week in and week out. The funniest part is I saw one group of foundation kids bringing their bag with clothes and computer to class and running so excitedly out from the class after the class ends rushing back home, as if they can’t stand a minute in here. I was like “LOLS” you know. What is there here in Melaka chasing after you, as if you want to rush as soon as you can back to home? Kids…. Hahaha… It’s okay to go back occasionally. But to go back every week? Come on, when will you grow up and have your own life? Staying at home for almost 20 years is still not enough? But it is quite nice also during the breaks when I’m usually alone here. Sometimes my dearest baby will accompany me, sometimes I just stay here and do my own stuffs. All the rumbling and crapping also can’t make me stop to think of home once a while. I do miss my home a little, just a little especially during the last few weeks of the sem. Hahahah.
Anyway back to the topic, One day = 24 hours. I believe most of us use around 9hours to sleep. Some people more. Left with 16 hours to do our things. Is it enough? I actually wanted to do well this semester, but not really what I expected, but at least more improvements that the other sems. Do you ever wake up in the morning thanking god or maybe your body for giving you another day to live on? Some people don’t have the chance to go through another day, see anther sun rise and sunset. So if you had been given one day, what do you plan to do with it? Just sitting down and wasting your time, Hahaha… that’s what I practically do more often than not. I had this one thinking that we should do at least something significant each day, not wasting it. Either doing our responsibilities, study, or maybe having fun and enjoying life. Or maybe meeting with other people and enhancing our social network and intrapersonal emotions. Don’t waste your day doing nothing, because no everyone has another day to live.